i bought up expenses, she said this is transactional

connected from one of the platforms, spoke for like a week, spoke over call,texted everything yesterday i asked her what do you think about finances and everything. she said i dont have a plan so i dont pay anything at home save like 10% rest on hoteling,friends going out and makeup clothing etc.

do note single child, well off parents similar background to mine, i dont give money at home aswell, except my saving ratio is way different.

anyways, she asks me if i had a plan and if i could share , i told her i dont have a plan just a rough idea, 50% should be saved combined rest we can do whatever we want. (Now the rest 45% is still a large amount as i earn fairly well , she makes okayish money).

This is were things went south. Says " Idk how to react, this is transactional" should not be "transactional" i hate such talks.

i make what 19-20lpa, she makes 6. Both of us are inherting crores worth of prime location properties in mumbai.