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BigBreadTheFella

Unsure if healthy or not

I (29m) have been dating this girl (25f) for about 2 months now. Shes completely about me and is almost overwhelming about it. I feel like im being love bombed a lot of the time. Im about to start back to school and have expressed my concerns about needing to focus on that and my career but it always seems to be brushed off. I.e. "Im here to support you, we can do this together" etc. Which is great and all but shes a single mother with none of her priorities straight right now. I've tried stepping back but im always met with arguments. I just feel like this ain't it but that's not what she wants to hear. I dont even know what to do anymore and it all seems like way too much.

Posted Aug 10, 2026, 4:26 PM UTC

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