Trans people on mod power on discord

I'm just wondering why there are just soo many trans people on mod power in discord servers that just ban anyone for damn near any reason, You could be genuinely curious and get banned for asking too many questions even tho it's harmless, you could accidentally misgender a fictional character for example, I accidentally called xaku a warframe that is made up of multiple parts of other warframe a "he" bc that's what it closely looks like, not even 10 seconds later the community got on my ass and perm ip banned me before I can even fully explain myself and I've been seeing this happen in other gaming discord communities aswell with other people where they'd just get banned or muted for uncalled reasons, Don't get me wrong I dont hate the community I actually see them as any other person but when a multiple amount of them act like this I start to waver, it might be bc I haven't really met a chill person in the community but I'm just genuinely curious as to why even go lengths to get mod power just to abuse it on everyone else.

Pls no hate I'm just asking a question