How do women feel if a guy loses his virginity in a hookup?
I’m a late bloomer I’m 28 and recently had a glow up, I’d say I’m pretty decently good looking.
I’ve yet to actually approach women properly and ask for their numbers but I intend to do so soon.
But until then I have posted Pics of myself on Reddit and have had messages, one from a guy who wants me to get with his gf as they’re in an open relationship and she seems pretty and I don’t mind tbh because I know I’ll get judged for being a virgin at my age and just because I have needs of my own.
Will I be judged for this in future relationships? If I tell a woman my first time was a hookup?
I’ve only been in one sort of relationship and it only lasted 2 months and that’s the only dating experience that I have, no sex just my first kiss which happened this year.
Ideally I’d lose it in a relationship but at the same time idk when that’s gonna happen and I just want to experience what sex is like.
Posted Aug 11, 2026, 11:16 AM UTC