36 M. Idk if anyone is going to see this or if this is gonna work at all

I have hit a point where I don’t know what to do anymore. I’ve been married to my wife for over 10 years and I just wish I would feel sexually desirable to her more often. I buy her flowers, I take care of kid responsibilities (all of them) I’m making all of the meals, doing the dishes, putting away the laundry. Just all around doing everything I can to make sure she doesn’t have any stress and has plenty of energy for us later.

It doesn’t work. I’m not enough to get her going. I’m not enough to make her want me. I’m just not enough.

I’m brand new to Reddit and I’m just here looking for a friend who will make me feel like I’m enough. Someone I can dump all the out on who won’t ghost but will comfort me. Someone who can help me release all this pent up energy. If you read this and you’re willing to help me out, send me a chat with your ASL