My moms constant insults to me are getting to me bad idk how to handle it

I’m 19, in college, and I rely on my parents. My mom says things like “you’re a disappointment to family” because my room is messy, “you living in this house makes me hate it here” “I’m not happy living in this home because of you” because she’s stressed out about work and things in the house aren’t to her liking, “I hope next time you fall you break your teeth and your face” her saying this really broke me, but no one in the family is taking me seriously. I called my dad about it and he thinks it’s just a mother daughter row. But I’m truly hurt. My mom is acting like a teenage bully, mocking me and intimidating me. She’s almost 60. I will be starting college soon and I’ll be doing an internship, I think I might try and leaving the country, Ik my mom won’t apologise and Ik no one will take me seriously. What should I do