36 M UK - looking for a new bro after mine moved abroad

Looking Local 📍

Hey all,

Hope you’re all well.

About me: 36 years old, live in the South West just outside Bristol, have ADHD and work in the tech sector.

What I’m looking for: someone who I can become good friends with, to the point that people question whether we’re together. Someone I can talk to every day, that will listen to all of my shit and give it back to me just as good. Light up when we see each others messages sorta deal. Geography isn’t a huge problem, just be within the UK. Tend to gel with people my age or younger

What I’ve experienced so far: People messaging me for days and then dropping off when it becomes real and I want to meet up. Asking straight away for NSFW stuff. Doing nothing short of hitting on me off the bat.

My DMs are open, so let’s chat and take it from there. Please start with something more than "Hey" and let me know what you would like from this.

Posted Aug 11, 2026, 11:20 AM UTC

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