Feeling like I deserve more F16 & F16

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OK, so basically we have been seeing each other/ have something going on since March and we got together like a month and a half ago. She has really bad stomach/health problems and has to take lots of medicine every single day cause she feels like shit most of the time. That is why we’ve only went to like two dates in total and have been outside together with other friends max. 4 times. OFC before asking her to be my girlfriend, I was well aware that I would have to make a little sacrifice of not going anywhere or not often going anywhere with her, and just hanging out at her house. But now I’m slowly realizing she actually does get out of the house, she often goes to the mall with her friends, to their homes etc. I often invite her to my house, but she never comes (only came 2 times). I have a pretty busy day because in the mornings I have to study physics (cause I failed my class and have a test at the end of the summer) and the rest of the day I work until 9:30 PM. That is if I want to see her during the week I have to take the bus go to her house (20 min ride but it takes me mostly like 40 min) at the time she wakes up (pretty late: 11 AM) and since I have a strict mother, I have to be at home again at 1 PM to eat lunch. That is I go there, stay there for like two hours and return. On the two days I don’t work, I also sometimes like to go out with my other friends to balance it all out. So all we do is stay at her house, make out talk a little bit and then she just doom scrolls on TikTok while I watch it with her. I kind of want more than that. I go out with my friends alone and wish to do all those activities with my girlfriend and fantasize about going on cute fun dates. I have at least said something about this to her like 3 times and she kinda tries to dodge it/says shes sorry in a lowkey manner. I have no idea how much pain she has to endure everyday and that is why I always just say its fine cause she can’t to anyt against it. I just love her so much and I also feel a little bit guilty that I always just want more. I would love to go out, see the world with her, see how she acts in a different environment/different situations (to get to rlly know her in a deeper lvl: its hard when you always just see someone in the same mode). But yea, one part of me just tells me to break up and the other loves her too much to care.

Posted Aug 11, 2026, 11:20 AM UTC

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