40 [F4A] #oregon #online friends, fwb, more? Getting divorced after years on the rocks & missing the genuine connection

A bit about me: im 40, mom to a 5 year old who already has,my potty mouth

Born n raised in los angeles county but ive been in oregon about 15 years. Can't seem to shake my ghetto attitude but I also forage foods and collect bones I find on hikes now

I work with kids at a non profit farm/nature school

I have political opinions that piss people off on both sides but definitely lean more left than right.

Nature is my happy place. Beach, woods, mountains, etc. I love it all and its where I go when I really need to clear my head.

Adhd crafter and diy'er. If I think i can do it, I will absolutely try and then hyper fixate on it for a while. But i have supplies for any project you could ever start lmao.

I volunteer with the homeless community here locally as well.

Currently im going through a divorce after 11 years. The last few years have been a peek a boo game of finding out about his cheating multiple times and then about his criminal past. Which he did a good job of hiding. but Hes admittedly a good dad so peacefully coparenting is important to both of us. On that note, please dont be married or attached in anyway. Im not looking to be a sneaky link or be in a poly situation.

What am I looking for? Just a genuine connection with someone's whos as interested in getting to know me as much as I want to know them. Friends, fwbs, serious relationship im open to wherever our vibes take us. I just miss having someone i want to talk to every day.

Online mostly but absolutely willing to meet up eventually.

I tend to be a bit of an insomniac (its currently 4am) but also work during the day so Im usually available to chat. Might be a couple hours through the day that im super busy but once I get attached, I make the time to check your messages.

Im pansexual, a switch that leans submissive most of the time amd have a pretty high sex drive. Its kinda like Xanax for me. I dont really have a type. If I like you as a human, ill like everything else about you. Oh and im curvy too. Just to put that out there.