My bf 22M of two yrs blocked me 24F everywhere after I told him to stop insulting me. I called his mom and told her what happened. Is there anything else I can do?

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Yesterday, he came to see me after work. He had a long day and he was in the mood for sex. I suggested to give oral and he was like « yeah but then you’ll say you don’t receive pleasure ». Fair, I have said that because I felt that way but this time, I told him I wouldn’t and he agreed. We go upstairs and we do our thing. I didn’t even do oral because he had condoms and wanted to have sex instead. He was talking his time, I thought this would be quick and then we heard footsteps and he immediately got dressed. Obviously, he panicked and so did I but I was comforting him.

Anyways nothing happened, he wasn’t in the mood anymore and I felt bad. I told him that I needed to know if he was ok but the he was slamming stuff, I knew he was mad at me. He just said leave me alone and I said ok I just don’t want you to use this against me, I just wanted to help you.

He texts me goodnight and I do too, but I say that I’m not feeling well. The next day, he’s at work and he calls me on his break, asks me how I am and I say that I’m still feeling upset about yesterday. The way he spoke and acted was mean, and he just immediately goes défense mode and insults me. I said you would’ve just acknowledge how badly you spoke to me yesterday and then he says « it’s your fault, you suggested it ». And I had told him yesterday night that I didn’t want him to use it against me because he was visibly agitated and wanted to do it. His only reason to say no was because I would say I don’t receive pleasure.

So he says mean things, insults, and he says he didn’t sleep and I should keep my mouth shut. Blocks me everywhere and I was very upset, I called his mom and told her how he insulted me and blocked me everywhere. I didn’t give her the entire story, but insulting someone you supposedly love should never happen.

She said he’s tired maybe that’s why, and i said that it didn’t justify his behaviour when I’ve been giving him meals after his shifts….Like he eats my food then insults me? And she said she’ll talk to him but I feel like I should’ve just stayed silent about it. Idk, but I felt so upset because he says horrible things. I do a lot for him, and I had good intentions but him being tired doesn’t excuse his behaviour.

I’m going to tell my mom too what happened and I feel like I should block him and his mom too now. I have this feeling that they’ll side together. 😕