WYR be a 10 married to soulmate 3, or a 3 married to soulmate 10?

Which would you rather?

1. Be a 10 out of 10 (supermodel looks and body) married to a 3 out of 10. You are both genuinely in love with each other. You experience a lot of confusion and maybe even ridicule from people why you are with your spouse.

or

2. Be a 3 out of 10 married to a 10. You are both genuinely in love with each other. You definitely get comments about people saying you outkicked your coverage.