People see "hotwife" and assume the rest of our life must look totally different from theirs. It really doesn't.

I'm a mom and a wife. I've got laundry piling up, kids' schedules, a busy week ahead, days where I feel sexy and plenty where I absolutely don't 😂. Most of our life is probably pretty boring and normal.

And then there's this other part of our marriage that I genuinely love.

We didn't get into the lifestyle trying to become different people. We were just a normal married couple with a fantasy we kept talking about until eventually we decided...why not actually explore it?

We've figured a lot out along the way. We've communicated way more than we ever expected to, had awkward moments, made mistakes, changed boundaries, laughed a LOT, and had some experiences I never would have imagined being part of my life.

**That's really why we started sharing.**

We're not professionals or porn stars. There's no glamorous sex-filled life happening behind the scenes 24/7 lol. We're just an amateur married couple figuring this out while also living a very normal family life.

**I think that's why so many couples have reached out to us.**

We've had hundreds of people ask how we started, how my husband handles jealousy, how we find people, what our boundaries are, what that first experience was actually like, and how you bring something like this into a marriage without letting it take over your marriage.

Eventually we put everything we'd learned into a couples guide. Basically the guide we wish someone had handed us when we were first sitting there saying, "Okay...but how do people ACTUALLY do this?" 😂

**SAME TEAM GUIDE:** https://greatscott8.gumroad.com/l/hwconversationguide

**SAME TEAM CONVERSATION SCRIPTS**: https://greatscott8.gumroad.com/l/conversationscripts

Our OF came from the same place. It's where we share the more adult side of our adventures and some of the things that obviously aren't making it onto Reddit.

OF ➡️ [Ash After Dark](https://onlyfans.com/ashandmattafterdark) 

I don't know. Sometimes it's still funny to me that I can be doing completely normal mom/wife stuff one minute and have this whole other side of me and our marriage too.

But I really love that both can be true.

This is actually us. Just a pretty normal couple with a slightly less normal marriage. 😉

We have helped hundreds of couples and I absolutely LOVE that about this journey. Swipe ➡️➡️ for some love and the last pic for some hate we still get 😂