Why can't people just accept someone is struggling or going through a rough patch without turning it into a competition? 🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩

Why is it that everytime i say, "I'm going through a tough time." Or "I'm struggling." Its always met with, "everyone is struggling / going through a tough time." Or "people have it worse than you." I never say that I'm the only person struggling or shit but if I'm struggling i have the right tosay that I am. I'm so sick of these dumb ass platitudes, honestly it feels like anytime i say this people get agitated and take it as a personal attack!!!!

I honestly cannot understand the thought orocess behind this, also this goes onto show people in general are very unkind and lack empathy in general.

Also its almost always with people striking a convo first and I'm not asking for advice or sympathy or shit just voicing the state I'm in. What the hell is wrong woth people?!