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Herry__09

Am I not worth it kaya di ako mapakilala?

Question / Advice / Suggestion

Problem: Bakit di ako mapakilala ng partner ko sa family nya? Even friends and workmates? As in walang nakakaalam na may partner sya. Akala nila single sya.

Context: Little background on us. I’m 32 and she’s 30.
We’re both financially stable and 7yrs together. Currently 2yrs ng LDR since nasa Europe sya ngayon and nasa pinas ako. Pero pinupuntahan ko sya once a year and umuuwi din sya dito sa pinas yearly.

Everytime I ask her di nya ako masagot bat di nya ako mapakilala.
I’m a decent woman. Financially stable. Ok naman family background ko. I can tell may itsura ako. Wala akong cheating history. Mabuti naman akong tao, most importantly di ko sya sinasaktan physically.
So I’m starting to questioning myself now ano bang mali sa akin?
I still love her despite all of this.

Btw, Hindi sya malandi na may tinatago or iniingatan kaya
di ako mapakilala something like that. I know her and alam kong wala involve na ibang tao.

About her: financially stable, decent woman as well, white collar job. She’s beautiful. Has avoidant issue but I can still manage.

Posted Aug 11, 2026, 11:33 AM UTC

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