The Naughty List
We have one very simple rule around here: do not DM posters from this subreddit.
- Not to offer yourself as their Dom.
- Not to “check in privately.”
- Not because you are apparently the one special person whose unsolicited attention will finally fix everything.
If someone posts here asking for encouragement, they are asking for support here, in public. They are not putting up a vacancy sign for strangers to slide into their inbox.
We ban users when we receive credible reports that they have broken this rule. Unfortunately, banning someone from the subreddit does not prevent them from messaging people who post here.
So, welcome to the Naughty List.
The usernames below have been reported to us for sending unsolicited DMs to posters and have been banned from r/Dompeptalk after moderator review. We are publishing the list so community members can choose to pre-block them.
This is not an invitation to message them, argue with them, follow them around Reddit, or conduct your own little vigilante operation. Block them and leave them alone. We are interested in protecting posters, not manufacturing more drama.
Current residents of the naughty corner
- u/Iced_Latte_3255 - Even tells people that they know it's against the rules, but would bery much like to lighten their pain, or maybe to read them a book and get to know them.
- u/Noone_9350 - Would very much like to help teach you something and also be helpful.
- u/notlucifer333 - Just wants to help you find some closure with the "long list of problems"
- u/in_charg3 - would really like you to tell him about "ur" kinks and limits.
- u/Zen_sub_kitty - Thinks the no DM rule doesn't apply to them.
- u/peteofaustralia - Wants you to "tribute" them by sending them money for their services.
- u/Spirited_Role_3862 - Someone posting could be a good time to try to make money off of them for helping in DM:s.
If you receive a unsolicited DM after posting
Please take screenshots showing the username and message, then report it to the mod team. Do not bait them into saying more. Do not threaten them with exposure. Just give us enough information to verify what happened.
This post will be updated as needed
Posted Aug 11, 2026, 11:35 AM UTC · locked