I dont like being controlled

I am a free spirit, when I was dating I would actually get really really angry when men would monopolize or dictate my time or what I do.

No I am going home at 9pm because I want to take a nice hot bath and watch TV. I do not want to sit in a loud af bar until 1AM and lose sleep.

No I have booked out my Sunday for ME TIME, you don't just get to text me and think I'm going to pick up your call like a hungry chicken.

No I always play my cello when I get home from work because I want to keep up my music hobby. I am not overhauling this to hang with you. Work around it.

I just hated that nearly every guy I dated wanted me to warp my schedule and time to suit them and they rarely do the same for me. My lifestyle and timetable before I met you STAYS EXACTLY THE SAME as it is when I am dating you. I am not justify why things I do in MY LIFE are important to me.

Thats the beauty of being single, no insecure ass man monopolizing your life to satisfy the fucking male loneliness epidemic.

Posted Aug 11, 2026, 10:31 PM UTC

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