Is it weird that a married girl with a child give me a guy her contact ?
I’m a guy, and at work tonight there was this beautiful stunning girl who came to work. She immediately catched my eyes, so did it seem for her with mine too. We talked and talked and flirted and flirted. I called her pretty and told her every guy would fall in love with her, so do I.
It was a 12 hour shift, and we sticked and glued together for the whole shift, I flirted and hit on her hard. She told me she got a husband already. I thought she was using an excuse to reject me, because she didnt push me away and said no or took distance and in fact got closer and liked those compliments and flirted. And I did tell her that even if she got a husband, even if I like her, didnt mean I want to persue her, I just want to tell her how perfect she was.
When we about to leave work, she and I sit together face to face, we talked. I bought her stuff to eat. Then she showed me her Facebook, which was telling to add her. I asked her back if Whatsapp is possible, she asked why was there something there, I said vaguely because Facebook is too personal, she said no. I honestly told her it was because I dont want to look for any relationship right now, just took what I said as a compliment. And then we talked and talked, then she somehow out of the blue showed me the pic of her child and her husband, asking if they look similar to her.
I said this and that and in the end I told her all I wanted was for her to be happy and chose the right person. If he was nice to her, that’s all I wanted.
But then thinking at all of these, was it weird that she did that, and weird for me to still hit on her after she said so?
Posted Aug 11, 2026, 10:36 PM UTC