28 [F4M] Finland/online | if you're ACTUALLY looking for something genuine, open my post

Heyoo. So first of all I’m genuinely looking for a deep and meaningful friendship. I’m not here to cure my boredom or to just have a chat for a few days. I’m not here to cure your boredom either so if you’re after that don’t message me.

I’m looking for a guy friend who also values community, deep connection and doesn’t use his time on surface level connections. Someone who’s emotionally available, present and emotionally and mentally mature.

So all of you weirdos and whiny men who get triggered by the slightest inconvenience can click off this post. I’m not interested in you.

I’m looking for a genuine, good-hearted and normal guy who has a brain and a heart, and he actually uses them. A rare find these days.

And no I’m not interested in romance. I’m just looking for a genuine good friend who wants to chat often and actually get to know me deeply. I have room for new friendships in my life and I’m looking for my soul tribe. Intentional and mature connections that are built with time are my vibe.

Boundaries:

My non-negotiables are that you’re a feminist, you don’t drink or smoke, you don’t use vulgar language or curse much, you don’t play violent games like gta or cod and you don’t watch anime.

Not interested in your opinion on my boundaries. I'm looking for my people, so not everyone's gonna fit. Wow what a concept I knowww.

About me:

I’m a masculine presenting woman/masculine being. I live in Finland surrounded by nature and I value a peaceful and slow paced life. I’m very creative, imaginative and deeply spiritual. I’m a witch and love tarot/oracle cards, manifestation and dream interpretation. Nature based spirituality is also important to me. I live cyclically and I’m not interested in hustling or being part of corporate life.

I’m studying art studies in university and aesthetics is my main subject.

I also love fitness, mostly weightlifting and I like doing stuff on the yard like chopping wood etc.

Personality wise I’m grounded, calm, honest and blunt. I’m very affectionate with my loved ones and protective. I’m very loyal as well once I truly respect and trust someone.

in a friend I value maturity, honesty, loyalty, warmth, empathy and kindness. I like someone who’s secure in themselves and can argue constructively and in a healthy way if there’s a disagreement. I like guys who are soft, gentle and dare to be authentically themselves. I can’t stand selfish, immature guys or guys who are macho, tough and stoic. Or guys who have a hard time grasping the idea of women's rights. It's embarrassing for y'all truly.

So if you’re also looking for a true friend, you match my non-negotiables and you’re genuinely interested in who I am, send me a dm :)