Wait, am I a femcel?

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I am a 31 year old woman and unfortunately I've never been in a relationship before or had sex.

People always say women have it easy especially on dating apps etc but embarassingly, I don't get any luck on dating apps. I don't get matches (even though im flexible on who I swipe yes for) and if I do get a match, they'll not respond or unmatch after a while.

Its embarassing to hear other women happily dating and going on new dates every week where I can't even get one.

Everyones in relationships, getting married, having babies, growing their families and I am just angry, bitter and sexually frustrated. Im becoming so hateful of the world and of people and most of all I hate how hateful I'm becoming. Just stuck in this cycle.

What do I do genuinely?

Posted Aug 11, 2026, 10:41 PM UTC

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