I snooped and don’t like what I found

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I snooped on his phone. I found that he watches >!sissy hypno porn.!<

I looked it up because I had no idea what it was. I am shocked and feel all kinds of terrible after finding out that it can be indicative of porn addiction.

I want to approach him, in the correct way, but I really think he’s gonna freak out when he knows I looked in his phone.

I don’t think he’ll trust me after that. But I don’t feel like I can trust him either.

I feel like this relationship has no saving now, like it just ends poorly either way. I want to work through it with him but I don’t have faith that he’ll admit it is an issue. And even if he does, you can’t make someone want to change.

He is away on business for two weeks and I’m dying at home just wanting to call him and blurt it all out.

I’ve known for a couple of months but I think it’s starting to ruin me and I have to say something to him.

I feel so alone in this.

Posted Aug 12, 2026, 3:18 AM UTC

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