Male dependent

So this is probably not the place to share this, but I just have the urge to share it with someone.
My wife active duty. We have a level of understanding about the dynamics of this long-distance period of our relationship. I am somewhat both a perv and a prude 😂. I’m definitely not into the idea of her messing around with others, and I would not be cool if I found out anything that confirmed it has happened. I prefer to live in my ideal little world and just hope for the best.

That being said, she knows how sexual I am and the sex drive I have when we are together, and she knows that probably doesn’t change when we’re apart. She told me years ago that if I do anything on the side, she doesn’t want to know about it. I assume she thinks this would be with chicks cause she’s made it clear no girlfriends and definitely don’t knock anyone up.

I’ve been lucky and have usually had regular buddies most of my life since I have been sexually active. Since Covid that’s been a challenge but do the DL thing and try be careful and respectful. I don’t think she would be totally floored if she found out I was open to dudes. She’s definitely made comments about a few of my friends and she’s the one that refers to them as bromances.

I travel to see her most of the time and fairly frequently. At least three times in the last five years, she has been stationed locally or at least close enough that we could basically experience something close to normal life. Earlier this year, she spent four months at a school here, life was almost “normal”. Ever since we met, I’ve usually gotten along with her friends, and they quickly become “our” friends, but obviously that’s different different here. Have definitely learned that’s just not exactly how it works on the military, but everyone’s always cool and respectful.

Anyway to the point of the post. Over the years have meet a few obviously gay guys that she hangs out with, but have heard from them, and from my own military friends that are also more that are not so obvious. Since she was here for four months, actually met quite a few different people. Since she has been gone, 4 guys from her class have reached out to me. All 4 hit me up through socials, one of them was classy and did it through LinkedIn. All of them threw out the idea of going out for drinks at some point. 2 of them have already flat out offered to suck me off. Since these guys aren’t from her unit, it’s tempting cause not like they would just randomly run into each other now, but I still haven’t taken advantage of the offers.

Thing is the one who reached out to me via LinkedIn is not like a high ranking but is an officer. He is more permanent here in terms he is not only here for a few months. We haven’t done anything but the innuendos are flying and I am definitely picking up on the sexual tension. He’s married too, and has already asked for me not share that the two of us are communicating, especially with any of the students I know. He is more of a peer to me in regards to personality and interests. Actually met up with him yesterday for happy hour. The probing questions were flying on his side as to my availability, and if live close to base or how far away. Twice while we’re there I felt him try to feel up on me lol