genuinely going to rage quit this game

started as duchess matilda and was going to try to unify italy. everything was going amazing, she lived until a jolly old age (87 i believe), was rich, had 6k piety, amazing reputation, etc. etc.

THEN my good for nothing SON decided to get consumption RIGHT as I was about to die (and I forced all my other sons to take vows so it was like my only heir) and he lived for 3 days then died.

then I played as my son's son, and he apparently was sadistic and lustful so basically EVERYONE hated him, and i got a faction created the moment I took the throne, where the faction had 2x the army size.

atp imma js start another save i give up