Should I ask my crush out even though shes moving away soon?
I have this crush on a girl I met through a Christian group, and I need some advice on what to do.
I've known her for around a month or two now, and we've hung out a few times, but always in group settings and never one on one. She's honestly one of the best girls I've ever met, and I've definitely started to like her a lot.
There have been a few things that have made me wonder if she might like me too. She invited me to her birthday thing, and the last time we all hung out, she spent a lot of the time around me or the smaller group I was with. There were even times where she stayed right next to me when we weren't really talking, despite having her own friends and family there. We've also ended up doing some things together just the two of us while at group events.
Obviously, none of that necessarily means she likes me, and I don't want to read too much into it. The problem is that she's leaving town soon and moving a few hours away. I just don't know if it's worth asking her out when she's going to be leaving in about a month.
At the same time, I know that if I never ask her, I'll probably keep wondering whether she ever liked me back. I feel like not knowing would weigh on me more than getting an answer, even if the answer isn't what I'm hoping for.
Would you ask her out anyway, even knowing she's leaving soon?
Posted Aug 12, 2026, 3:24 AM UTC