Vacation with GF

Communication

Me (25M) and my partner (25F) are about to go on our first big vacation as a celebration of our 5 year anniversary. We booked a romantic hotel room with a jacuzzi and everything.

My GF is very excited and has planned out each day with activities, site seeing, dinners, etc. I’m also excited for the trip as I’ve never been to where we’re going and I’m looking forward to spending lots of quality time with her since we’re in a long distance relationship.

My one concern is I’m worried that we won’t have many opportunities to have sex or intimacy. Given that we are long distance and both living at our parents houses still, we haven’t had much of a chance to just enjoy ourselves since college. My hope was to just have at least one night where we have a little something to drink and have some fun. I was thinking of buying her some lingerie, asking her to think of anything she’d like to try, etc.

However, after seeing the plans she’s laid out, I’m not sure that she’ll be up for that kind of night as we’ll likely be tired at the end of each day.

How should I go about this situation without coming off wrong? She is more likely to prioritize having an awesome trip and seeing all the sites on her list than cutting an activity just to have sex which I understand. But I also think it’s important to have just a little romance on the trip as well.

TLDR; GF planned exciting vacation but didn’t leave much room for sex.

Posted Aug 12, 2026, 3:26 AM UTC

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