Hypermobility disorders and piercing (specifically a PA)

hey,

I was wondering if anyone has experience with hypermobility spectrum disorders and piercings? seen some mixed reviews, I know it’s a spectrum so it can affect each individual differently. just looking for someone with experience that might be able to give me some insight. bit more explicit details below.

if this is the wrong place to post this sorry, let me know and I’ll delete it.

I have ear lobe piercing and a helix one on the same ear. the ear lobe hasn’t stretched and even shrunk when I had my earrings out for some time.

all fine and dandy just on that, but I have had one other experience that makes me hesitant. me and my wife practice chastity and were thinking about me getting a PA to help secure it more. I tried a tether spout and I had it pull out with two different sizes that are considered on the larger side especially for a beginner. felt secure in the beginning but with wear it, painfully I might add, pulled out without any real strain. think I was sitting both times. the area where it sits in place is connective tissue that’s not supposed to be easily stretched from what I understood. I don’t believe that has gone back to its original size.

so with that in mind, was wondering if anyone had experience with this. Unsure about having a long term wear cage pulling on a piercing and if it would stretch out over time. Niche I know haha.

thanks for any info and hope I’m not oversharing haha