When does it get better

I have been dealing with going no contact with my family for over a year now. Things really hit the fan this week.

I’m mostly just looking for any kind of advice on when things get better.
After cutting off my mom, she got a job where I worked and I had to quit to not be around her.
She posts pictures of me on Facebook saying I am childish and it seems like slowly the whole family is feeding into the narrative.
the only person I still have contact with on my mom’s side is my sister that went through all of the abuse with me. Shes always been my best friend and I know she will always be there.
Just depressing that all of my other “family” is being so harsh. Saying I mean nothing to them, that none of the abuse happened, and that I always play the victim.
I think everything is just at the peak with the drama and I’m wondering is it actually going to get better? What is the next step for people who have been in this situation? I am just really tired of being in this mess.