am i being dramatic or is this valid ??

me and my bf are long distance for almost a year and its been going pretty well but lately his actions are bothering me and i hope im not being dramatic but when we’re on call and spending time with each other, sometimes he’s on his phone texting or watching reels and not paying attention to me which makes me feel pretty sad and ignored most of the time. I brought this up and he said that he’s sorry and he wont do it anymore but he still does, but we had this convo about him going out and giving me updates ( i dont need an update the whole time just one text knowing hes safe and having fun) he said when he’s spending time with his friends he thinks it’s disrespectful to go on his phone or watch reels or anything while he’s spending time with them. and it made me feel pretty upset because cause when he spends time with me he does that. he doesn’t think it’s disrespectful when he does it to me?