In what order should I do these spells?

For context me and my ex broke up in the beginning of the year but a little under a month ago he broke no contact saying he wanted me back, then when we met up a week ago, he flirted and lead me on only to suddenly do a 180 and say he has a gf and block me, insinuating that the only reason he let go was because his gf got to him first. Now, since I know there’s still some lingering feelings for me, I understand I’m on a time crunch and want to do a honey jar spell on him to open him up to communicating and sweetening up to me. But I also want a spell to break them up since they’ve proven to not be a good match since she’s already stirred up arguments with him. So my big question was should I do a break up spell first then the honey jar spell or vice versa? Help me out please!

TLDR: should I do a breakup spell for my ex and his gf before doing a honey jar spell to get him back? Or does the order not really matter?