We are visiting very soon and have some questions

2 females and myself (m) will be visiting Scarlet Ranch coming up soon. I have read quite a bit on this page, and was just curious on a few things.

1. I see tipping mentioned all over. Is cash the only way to do this? How much are people usually tipping the different positions such as the check-in, coat check, ect.

2. How much is coat check?

3. We were thinking about bringing some bottles of liquor and a few chasers. What other chasers are on site?

4. None of us have been to a lifestyles club, and wanted to check things out. Is it alright if we find a table to have drinks at and socialize and see what things are all about?

5. Membership fee is $50 per person and then the daily fee is dependent on gender/couple status? So for example, a friday would be $80 for two of us, $20 for the other, for a total of $100?

6. Im not sure what the ladies will be wearing that night, but Im guessing something they could wear to the club or a rave later that night. What is standard for guys? I saw there was different events like foam parties and some beach thing, but then it says to dress to impress. I am confused if this means to bring swim trunks or slacks. When not at work at the fire house, I usually wear shorts, t-shirts, and nicer sneakers. Since it looks like it says to avoid 2/3 of that, I want to make sure I wear the right stuff lol.

7. What kind of activities are there to do besides have drinks? I saw mention of jaenga.

8. How is parking there?

9. What are the go to areas to hang out for drinks, and things we should see while visiting and checking it out?

10. The events list Squirrel Creek Lodge. Is this on site as well?

Thank you so much for your time, and help. I apologize if I missed anything while reading, or misread something.