I need to know if I should continue texting him or not?

Hi, I've been with my bf for almost 2 years. We're in our mid 30s if that helps? Our relationship was great. We calls, texts and video calls every single day without a miss. Then yesterday, we got into a huge argument. We both said lotsa hurtful things to each other. So, he immediately deleted my contact from his phone, he unfollowed every single of my social accounts and didn't pick up my calls at all. But we still share our location (so, he didn't remove it, yet).

For context, we used to got into huge argument previously, and it was always me who begging him to come back, and it was always me who running after him. Then we would got back like how we used to be after we talked. But now, I don't know after what happened yesterday. We got into a huge argument, he said "this will be the last time for me to respond to you", then he deleted my contact (I knew because I can't see his profile picture anymore and this happened few times previously when we fought).

So I tried calling him afterwards, of course he didn't pick up my calls. I sent him lotsa texts, he didn't read em at all. Then I went straight to do my work (I work from home and he has his own business, so that's how we could call almost every time).

Later that night, I texted him again wishing him good night. Just that. He ignored me. Then this morning I woke up with no texts from him. He always texted me good morning every single morning. So, I texted him good morning first. Wishing his day will get better and don't skip meal (because he tends to forgot to eat when he's busy with work). Still, no reply till now.

I'm missing him so much!! It feels different and lonely without him when he was always there with me every single day since the first day we went official. Now it feels empty. What should I do? Should I just continue texts him even when he would definitely ignore all of my texts? Would that makes him missing me too?

Oh! I should also add that he used to tell me that I made him feel like he fell in love for the first time, he did lotsa things with me that he never thought he would do and he loves it very much, I meant the world to him, and he really enjoys my company and he don't wanna lose me. When we got back after our previous argument, he would cry so much and he will keep on saying that he tought he's gonna lose me and that scares him. Then he would begged to meet me, and he will hug me for hours while crying saying please don't leave him, he loves me so much etc.

Please help me. What should I do? If i stop texting him, would this really be the end of us? Should I give him space? Should I still continue texting him daily? I really am missing him so much that it hurts like hell.

Posted Aug 12, 2026, 3:32 AM UTC

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