Where does the meaning exist?

In my Inner Peace Meditation,
My followers usually ask, “What is the meaning of meditation?” and I just reply to them, “Where does the meaning exist?” Meditation is not about the definition, but about seeking the space where the meaning resides!
People ask me, “Why do you never get angry when people insult you?” And I say, “Because I know where the meaning of the words they spoke resides. Always remember, those meanings reside in a place that you control!”
In easier words, you control the meaning, not the words themselves or the speaker! So, if I can control the meaning, words may never mean to me what the speaker meant!