How do I make myself care?
Has anyone else found it that they just don't really care that they're overweight/obese?
I've been feeling like I'm losing my mind seeing everyone care so much about their weight. Like yeah, I do want to lose it just to be able to wear cute clothes, but other than that, I kind of don't care.
Summers suck because I'm constantly hot and sweating but apart from that and the clothes, I'm fine with staying big.
For reference, I'm huge (5'3 and 260 lbs) and should focus on helping my future self feel as best as I can in my body but I'm perfectly healthy now. Logic doesn't work on me because I'm aware of the health risks my weight poses for the future.
How can I genuinely focus on losing weight? Do any of you have any tips? What was your push towards the right direction if you were ever in my place?
Posted Aug 12, 2026, 3:33 AM UTC