Struggling with breakup, needed to vent somewhere safe

Hey I’m new here,

I have visited this sub but never commented and I prehaps think that doing so might actually be therapeutic and give me some sort of closure.

I visit this sub from time to time because it has designated with me and my current situation. For the past 2.5 months I have been broke up with by my partner. We had been together for around 6 months before it happened suddenly. I am struggling to get over her and there memories we shared together. It is as if there is a significant burden that I carry everyday.

She has fallen out of love with me and gave me two reasons on why we should break up. First is that I was too feminine and not manly enough. The second is that she said she wants to find herself.
Now what is true is that there is a tremendous amount of things going on in her personal life that causes her great stress, is this the real reason? I wish I could have some sort of closure.

Anyway, anyone who reads my vent please know it is so very healing for me to resignate with people going through similar things :), may you all find peace somehow.