My friend and I had conflict and things went sideways real fast.

It's a bit too long, but I mean, I could use some advice.

So I've been friends with this girl for the past 4 years. We’re completely platonic, although I did have feelings for her at one point in the past. She knows about that, but we moved past it and remained friends.

Some time ago, we were talking, and she was venting and telling me she was having a rough time at work, I said I could understand and that I did too, long story short it, I on a lighter not made it into a comparison of who had it rough in a respectful manner. But she got mad and said she won't talk to me.

I apologized as much as I could multiple times right then and there and told her I didn't mean to be dismissive and but no response, she completely ghosted me for a whole week, not even acknowledging my messages.

Cut forward to a full week of no communication, I texted her to try and understand what the situation was. But instead of telling me or talking to me, she brushed me off as rudely as she could. I tried a few times to try and get to her, but to no avail. She acted more and more distant. So I decided to leave the conversation cuz meri bhi bus ho gai thi and I got very frustrated over this

A few hours later, she texted me saying she knew I didn't mean to hurt her but she was already mentally and physically exhausted and she wasn't looking for someone to tell her who had it harder. She just wanted someone to listen and understand how overwhelmed she felt. When it turned into a comparison, it made her feel like her feelings weren't really being heard, and in the state she was in, that hurt more than it normally would have.

Now, this made me even more frustrated because she knows me, and she knew I wasn't trying to do any of these things, and I had apologized to her along the same lines multiple times too. But this made me lose my shit completely ke yaar thora hosla karo thori aqal karo.

I just told her that I understood. I just wished she'd told me this earlier instead of letting it go on for a whole week. Cuz It hurt me and made me angry at both her and myself. I get no reply to it.

The next day, she tried talking to me, but at this point, meri completely bus hui hui thi and I didn't want to talk to her even then I tried to be as responsive, respectful and polite as I could be. But she got angry cuz mein said se baat nai kar raha 🤦‍♂️ and phir se started to act rudely. This time, I just tried to end the conversation in whatever way I could

The next day, she texted me something in regards to a random inside joke we had, and I'm here thinking that she has completely disregarded all that has happened, so I choose not to respond.

2 days later I see that she's blocked me from WhatsApp and removed me from all my socials.

Banda kia kare ab.