28 [F4M] # Houston, TX but originally from Kyoto, JPN - I have some questions about trad lifestyles as I may wish to consider this for future
To understand my background, back in Japan, many men are not very interested in dating and I do not like the idea of working too many hours so after living abroad in New Zealand and later USA, and as I do want soon to be married and have family, I am open to being stay at home mother and wife in the next 5 years.
Unfortunately, for now, as per my EB-3 Visa, my residency for now is tied to my current job as a nurse and will be so for the next 5 years, but I should be able to apply for USA citizenship after 5 years and once I get USA citizenship, I can seriously look at being a stay at home wife and mother as honestly, I am tired of working for last 10 years.
I apologize if I went on a little too much about myself but I guess my questions are, for men looking for a tradwife, would you expect your prospect wife to continue working or are or would you be able tk provide income and housing while I cook, clean, sex anytime and care for children? I am so burnt out sometimes and want an end game that I am open to this as I want to not be working in next 6 or 7 years.
What is your ideal version and motivation for seeking tradwife?
Posted Aug 12, 2026, 10:59 AM UTC