question for people with the ruler of their 7th house combust

hi! looking for first hand life experience with the 7th house ruler being combust (cazimi and under the beams people are welcome to join the discussion too).

are relationships a place in your life where you tend to struggle?
have you found (especially for those born during the day) that you can tend to burn up your your partner, in terms of consuming their energy, being too overpowering, or sort of shadowing them, like they have a hard time standing out (especially in social situations)?
do you tend to hide your relationships from others, rarely posting about them on social media, too?

I'm curious to know about your experiences! and would love to take a look at your charts to get a clearer picture (if you don't feel comfortable posting them here, you can DM me).