F23 [M4F] EC— looking for my person, maybe?
Heyy :)
So… dating apps have been a bit of a “please, God” experience lately 😭, so I figured why not try Reddit? Maybe the universe was just waiting for me to make an r4r post all along. Who knows 😂
I’m 23,black, doing my postgrad and based not too far from PE. I’m 167cm (5'5–5'6 depending on the day:) and pretty easygoing.
I love going to the gym, short trips, movies, reading, and I’m currently teaching myself to crochet (emphasis on very slowly). I’m also hoping to get into photography/videography, especially landscapes.
I’m looking for someone around 23–28 who’s genuinely interested in getting to know each other with the possibility of a relationship. I’d rather start as friends and let things develop naturally.
I’m not looking for perfection, just someone who has something going on for themselves, is funny, wholesome, mature, focused and big on communication. Slightly taller than me would also be appreciated 😂.
Ultimately, I’d love a best-friend-type relationship. Someone I can laugh with, have random conversations with, explore new places with and genuinely enjoy being around.
I’m open to meeting someone anywhere in SA, as long as we’re both willing to put in the effort if things develop.
So yeah… if this somehow finds the right person, tell me a little about yourself. :)
Maybe Reddit really is where my love story was hiding
Posted Aug 12, 2026, 2:00 PM UTC