Do avoidant come back twice?

It’s been a month and 9 days, it looks like she hates me but I gave her everything. She dropped a nuclear accusation on me to hide her own faults that I caught leading to her breaking up with me. This is horrible because I know I want her back and no one can tell me otherwise. We was so close and I mean VERY close. She said I was the best bf she’s ever had but still ran back to her trauma bonded ex, not for a relationship but just went back to him. Idc how much she hurts me I want to work at it with her. Will she come back?

I was super duper close with her I mean I helped her family, I helped her with insecurities I bought her teddies the whole lot. I know she still sleeps with the blanket I got her for valentines and in her room somewhere is Leo and Elliot, her 2 fav teddies I got her. Leo was gonna be the name of our first son. This is how serious we was.

Last time she broke up with me was for almost identical reasons, I caught her hiding stuff I had a go at her for a bit then she split up with me, she came back however 4 days later after warming up to me over message

This time it started very similar even the wording was the same. I caught her hiding stuff I had a go, but the difference is this time I didn’t beg nor bombard her and she dropped a nuclear accusation on me on the TikTok reposts, I blocked her off everything because I was emotional but soon unblocked her to find she had blocked me so I messaged her on WhatsApp, of course I begged and she was cold and blocked me off there. Since then her mum posted on fb a post about the accusation giving my full name and calling me names, but my ex commented saying “she’s done this for herself, and she’s ignoring me crying in the other room”

Honestly this story goes on for ages but basically since then she’s not budged, it looks like she hates me online, but we are in no contact.

Man I miss her I’d genuinely do anything to get her back.
We was so close and so deeply rooted, I treated her so well for her to do all this to me. I just want my sweet girl back