AITAH for terrorizing my brother because apparently closing a fridge is too difficult?

My brother says Im being cruel.

The man who leaves dirty dishes everywhere throws food around the fridge, leaves laundry in the washer and has somehow caused maggots to appear three separate times says Im the problem.

Okay.

Growing up, my brothers never had to clean. The girls did dishes, laundry and basically everything else. Now we are adults and he still pulls the nobody taught me card.

Funny how Google exists.

I gave him chores and somehow every chore became worse. Dishes left full of dirty water. Mop water reused until it smelled rotten. Laundry abandoned. Food tossed into the fridge. Syrup stored upside down without a lid.

So I stopped doing it for him.

Now he is calling it terrorizing.

Apparently expecting a grown man to clean up after himself is psychological warfare.

AITAH?

Posted Aug 12, 2026, 2:06 PM UTC · locked

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