30 [TF4T] East US/Online - looking for something genuine

hi, i'm lena. i'm 30, a trans woman in DC, and i'd like to meet someone kind, curious, and actually interested in getting to know each other.

i'm bookish, into cozy games, plants, strange internet rabbit holes, and conversations that can wander from something sincere to something completely ridiculous. i'm affectionate and a little teasing once i'm comfortable. i like people who get visibly happier when they talk about whatever currently has their attention.

i'm looking for dating and a genuine connection, not a rushed hookup or a one-sided chat. i'm open to online or long-distance if meeting eventually feels realistic. ideally you're 21–45 and interested in women or trans people.

if you message me, tell me your age, broad location, and one thing you could happily overexplain right now.