50 [M4F] #Boston/Portland An open relationship at 50

This post is part asking for advice, and part seeking a friend with benefits. My partner and I have decided to open up our relationship, and while we both are feeling good about the decision, I have to ask "How do I find the right playmate nowadays?", "How do I go about this without our friends and acquaintances suddenly finding our faces posted on various dating apps?". Gone are the days of Craigslist. Where do people find success now?

I'm just about 50, fun, patient, safe, and I love a good adventure. You might say I'm an all around good guy. I love women of all shapes and sizes. Not looking to rush anything, but want to find someone to laugh with, build each other's confidence, and do creatively filthy things with.

Let's chat!