I’m having a small wedding a few months from now... I only invited family and several close friends. Let’s name them Larry, Moe and Curly. 

We’ve all been good friends over the last several years but over the last year Larry and Curly had a break in their friendship. This was known at the time I sent invites. After I sent invites, Moe has taken Larry’s side because the two of them have grown to be closer friend. Larry and Moe have made it very clear they don’t like Curly and don’t want to be around her but will “tolerate it for my wedding”. I’ve also found out a few things that Moe has said behind my back - Ex. Didn’t want to invite me to her birthday bc we weren’t ’as close anymore’. Context: yes we aren’t as close because I HAD A BABY!

The point I’m making is, my wedding is about ME (and the groom). The vibes are so important especially at a smaller wedding. I’m considering telling Larry and Moe I no longer want them there because I don’t want the drama. They’ve made it clear they hate Curly and I don’t feel like this is going to create a vibe that makes me happy or comfortable on my wedding day. Retracting the invite would most certainly mean ending the friendship which is a big step. Please weigh in with some words of advice: 

I want to uninvited my friends to my wedding