Before we begin, if i or anyone in the comments says "some \[community\] people do xyz", i/they are not saying everybody is like this. If you went to me (im bi) and said "a bi guy beat me up in the alleyway last night", what would be the appropriate reaction for me? "oh no im so sorry for you" or "well we're not ALL like that, i cant believe you would IMPLY that"

Okay, got it?

Anyways yeah. Have you seen those memes where its like "cRaCkIng fEmBoyS iS nOt gAy BrO?" That's just one example of sexualisation and people deciding to determine our gender for us. If it's not gay, then we must be actually women.

Also egg culture. I'm probably preaching to the choir here but holy shit can people mind their own business? No we are not all women in denial we are FEMININE BOYS.

People love to decide our sexuality too, people think femboys are only gay/bi. Trans femboys exist, het femboys exist, aro/ace femboys exist.

Also, r/femboy is filled with nsfw. r/femboys is even worse because ITS A PORN SUBREDDIT. There is really no other example like this for any other community where the community is so tightly linked with NSFW - to some people (yes including some lgbtq people) we're just a walking porn category.

  
Also, people act like we dont even belong near the lgbtq community because they've suffered more or something. Maybe that's true, but you can't just invalidate someone else's problems because you have more or worse problems, especially because it's an entire community vs an entire community and since we're usually cis men we're the oPpReSsErS or something.  
Can we stop the tribalism please? Licking the boots of the billionaires and the pedos are not gonna save you when they come for us all.

Yes I am a feminine boy so dont even claim that I have no "real idea" whats going on - i've seen all of this as actual arguments.

  
Im not gonna argue with people in the comments, so I'm just gonna block anyone who decides to be contrarian.

  
Thanks for reading to the end! <3

I hate how our gender is constantly up to other people's interpretation and we're constantly marginalized by the LGBTQ community and sexualized for no reason