Follow up texts (bc I can’t put more than one screenshot):

Me: Oh I hope the wedding was fun! And no worries about the texting, I’m not a big texter anyway so that’s no big deal. But okay, thank you for letting me know. I totally understand and I do wish you the best regardless of how things pan out.

Him: Same to you, sorry the timing didn’t really work in our favor I was hoping to be in another job by now and then I’d have a little more time. But I did have a lot of fun with you during the time we spent together, who knows maybe it can work out down the line a little bit.

Me: Likewise, it was fun and I’m sorry too it didn’t work out this time, but life happens and we do our best. But yeah, my night classes are starting soon so I’ll be in your area most days, so if you ever have some time and wanna reconnect, shoot me a text :) I really think you’re great

That was a couple days ago and he never responded. This was a guy I met on Hinge in May and we went on like 6-7 great dates, I met his friends, and most recently spent the night at his house. At the beginning of the summer he seemed like he was all in, very proactive in making plans and always suggesting things but he did make it clear that busy season at the farm was picking up and that he’s constantly exhausted and working 7 days a week. 

I was okay with waiting out the busy season and seeing him once every couple weeks till November, but I kind of knew something was up when I left his house that morning and he stayed texting me on a consistent basis, but couldn’t nail down a time to see me again for a whole month. We did discuss it and he seemed genuinely sorry he couldn’t get a free day. I offered to bring him dinner on a weeknight and he said he didn’t know when he’d get even just an hour to himself.

So I don’t know, I’m feeling pretty disappointed and I want to believe he had good intentions till the end but I’ve been hurt so many times that I can’t help but think this is just his way of telling me he‘s not interested without hurting my feelings. 

I want to believe he’s being honest but I can’t help but feel like he’s trying to reject me in the nicest way possible