37 [M4M] Married part time femboy with a fantasy of a bull using my wife and/or me

Have a couple of free hours and figured I’d make a post to pass the time :) Wifey found some photos of me dressing fem a while back and things were pretty up in the air for a bit after. Ended up with some fantasies that have been a little hard to shake as a result. It all kind of started as thinking about what would happen if we didn’t end up working things out and then spiraled a bit from there.

Things like chatting with guys while wearing her old stuff, maybe even dressing like her for a date or something. Then it got to the point where I thought about what she’d be doing on dates or with other guys if things didn’t work out with us.

Fast forward a bit and things have gotten a bit better, but I’m still having some trouble shaking the thoughts and fantasies. Her type is definitely more masculine guys, so kind of complicates things with my femboy side. She’s more on the modest/shy side so outside of me being really direct in conversation, it doesn’t really come up much.

I’ve also read some posts about hotwifing/sharing and wives getting into things with thirds that they never thought they’d be into. Maybe that would include it would opening her up a bit to my fem side, but I definitely feel like that would take a lot of baby steps.

As far as looks go, I’m 5'5", around 160 lbs and getting back down into the 150s. I’ve been dressing off and on for a long time and I feel pretty confident saying that I’m cuter than the average girl I see in public. Mostly due to putting in the effort, since looking like a masc guy in women’s clothes doesn’t really do much for me personally. I usually only dress once a month or so at this point, since she’s not really open to /into it.

Could definitely be up for chats about the idea of dressing as my wife and playing as her for a guy or any other ideas you might have. Also could chat about potential dynamics since a few guys have been curious about mostly being with her, but some have also brought up wanting a threesome with both of us 🥵