How do you avoid being the food and car/uber guy?

I somehow end up getting slotted into that role by girls when I start talking to them. I'm not really trying to be that guy unless I'm in a relationship with a girl. How do you avoid that categorization. It seems girls often put guys into different buckets based on how they see them.

I can see why I'd be put in that bucket, I'm pretty straight-laced, good job, make good money etc. Not much of a degenerate. Guys who have your stuff together, how do you avoid getting placed into the boring food/emotional support guy category?