Hey guys, just wanted to share my first sexting experience. I’m a 25M, like everyone other man I used post a lot in sexting communities. I must say you have to lucky to get approached by a girl. Because for a girl, she just needs to open Reddit and choose couple a posts and dm them. Girls don’t need to post and if they do they will get flooded with dms. Any girl reading this, you can relate to that. 

In my case, I did get couple of approaches . But, most of them introduce and then disappear. IDK the reasons, it could be my mistake in communication. But then one day, I was approached by a girl asking for sexting. 

I said Yes, obviously 🙄. But then she disappeared and I thought yeah it’s the same as usual. Continued my posting to get approached by a woman because if I approach a girl who posted for sexting and my profile getting picked by her has less chances than my Resume getting picked by a HR.🤷🏻‍♂️, Truth to be told. 

After two days, on a Saturday afternoon while I was lazy lying on my bed. I got a text from her. We introduced ourselves, I was clear about what I’m looking for and she was ok with that. Also, she mentioned that she never sexted before and never spoke about sex with a stranger in her life. So I took things slow, as she is new to this. 

We talked about her daily life and slowly started asking about desires and fetishes. That’s where the magic happened, we both have same fetish and then the conversation happened smoothly. By then it was evening and she wanted to meet her friends. But, she also wanted to masturbate atm as she got horny with all the discussion. I gave her a dare and asked her not to masturbate till she reruns home. Also, gave her an imagination of what I would do when she is back if I were in her room. She got excited and took the dare.  

The best thing is she was still texting me throughout from evening till she comes back home. Our texts were mix of general topics like the books she read and spicy talks like she mentioned she was in Burger King and I replied her that I would eat the cheese on her rather than in the burger. She kept texting while coming back home about how wet she is and how much uncomfortable as well as excited she is in public transport while texting with me. 

After she reached home, you folks know what could have happened. We both masturbate together while sexting and it was an experience to be cherished and shared which I’m doing right now with the community. 

I am not flaunting here just wanted to share with fellow community members. The one thing that helped is being myself and let her be comfortable as well. 

What does a positive digital intimacy look like for you?

PS: I have posted this in my old account as well.

[M] Sharing a win: Had a great, pressure-free sexting experience.