We’re new to this and we have some questions!

Goodmorning everyone! 26 M from Texas here, so my wife and I had a conversation about opening our relationship up recently. So my wife is bisexual and I could tell that she’s been wanting to talk to women since we’ve been married (which is fine for me)she’s just never acted on the opportunity I gave her. Anyways a conversation came up recently and now we’re searching for our first either FF or FFM action. Here is where some of the issues are. I asked her would she just want to find a consistent partner and she could definitely date them if she wanted and she said she didn’t know about that because she felt like others would judge us or she didn’t want the girl to feel left out.

What are some of the things you guys did when you first started this lifestyle and how did y’all navigate through the judgmental aspect of this life? Last question if there are any unicorns in the chat would you feel a certain way if you were dating a couple but they didn’t want you to be known?

Thank you all in advanced 👏🏾👏🏾