hi! pls help me decide which steps i should take next. for context:

i had braces for 10 years (yes i know sobrang tagal). one time, may binunot na ipin sa ilalim because sira na siya so there was an empty space there that my dentist tried to close and still have my bottom teeth aligned despite the gap. i asked her kung kelan matatapos, and she said 2 years pa. and i couldn’t wait for another 2 yrs because she kept promising and then maeextend - and i’m all for making sure the treatment plan is followed etc but i’m sooo sure you can’t have braces for 12 straight years 😭 

unfortunately i had to have it removed because of work and because ayoko na talaga. the way she would put pasta on my teeth to improve my bite, she just dumps it and doesn’t even bother to shape it correctly so parang may bloke lang ng pasta above my molars. or she would shave my teeth too much most of them became super tiny and sensitive. then syempre after braces may retainers dapat, so i wore them religiously BUT merong sira yung bottom tooth ko na natatamaan nung retainers (which i’ve been flagging to her for more than a year already pero wala siyang ginawa lol) so laging nagiging sensitive i couldn’t wear my bottom retainers properly. eventually i didn’t wear my bottom retainers na lang, hence the movement and now misalignment of my bottom teeth as you can see sa pictures. 

i had my teeth checked and sabi yung tooth ko which i mentioned above needs to be extracted na because the damage is deep na, hindi na raw kaya ng rct (we had an xray) kasi wala na ring post na kakapitan since 1/3 of the tooth is gone. 

my problem is, i really want to become a flight attendant 😭 the dentist suggested i have that tooth extracted first, then go back to wearing braces but both upper and lower teeth daw dapat, hindi pwede yung lower lang kasi i have a deep bite pa rin. so i’m scared and stressed again cause i don’t wanna go back to wearing braces huhu can you please suggest any other way to have my lower teeth aligned? are aligners a good choice? 

also, since i want to become a flight attendant, i need to have complete teeth (bawal dentures) so i’m wondering if mas ok ba fixed bridge, implant, or veneers na lang with fixed bridge (idk if merong ganun lol) but i’m considering too na what if magpaveneers na lang ako ng lower :(( but of course last option na yunbecause i don’t wanna destroy my teeth forever.

pls help me or refer good dentists around qc. thank you po 😭

what’s the best route to take?