32 [M4F] Looking for a long term FLR with a domme. #WashingtonDC #NOVA #IRL

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Hey yall, beefy bearish submissive guy living in Northern Virginia looking for my Dom(me). I want an irl female-led relationship or a Dom(me) couple. I don’t really switch.

About me:

Height: 6’2"
Weight: 350
Hair/eyes: black/brown

Hobbies: weightlifting, electronics, traveling, teaching stem, cars, sci-fi, and more.

My type of relationship:

I want to be someone’s arm-candy that can be showed off like a trophy husband, who is willing to tease me and lead but also gentle and loving. Best way to describe my person is "gentle but cruel".

I don’t mind dominant couples but both must be dominant.

To me Dom/sub isn’t just about sex but a deeper connection between partners. Someone who is in control but guides and in return has a loyal obedient partner. I enjoy acts of service towards my partner not out of requirement but desire. I want to be owned by you as a show of ultimate loyalty.

This doesn’t mean that i expect you to do all the work, I will still put equal energy into everything we do together.

Only looking for individuals in Greater DC/Baltimore. Open to those nearby in RVA and Philadelphia.

Kink wise I’m up for anything: D/s, chastity, bondage, spanking and more. D/s is the only strict requirement but everything else can be discussed.

What I look for in my partner:

- older (32+)
- experienced
- confident

I like women in all shapes and sizes so whether you’re a slim petit person, ripped muscle mommy, or curvy, it doesn’t matter to me.

How to reach out to me:

Shoot me a DM with details about you and where you’re located and what you’re looking for. Don’t expect us to do anything at first other than coffee and maybe dinner.

Posted Aug 12, 2026, 8:17 PM UTC

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